It happens daily. I give my client an exercise or movement and they immediately respond with “There is NO WAY I can do that.”. To which I say “Of Course!”. I’m a trainer, who gets paid to challenge people and push them beyond their expectations. Of course I am going to give my clients things they are bad at, that is the only way to grow.
Embracing the “suck” is my way of saying to get your ego out of the way and focus on developing and expanding your movement and mind in new ways. Our bodies are designed to adapt, they enjoy new challenges and demands. It is important that we feed the need or we risk the chance of getting bored, unmotivated, weak, and maybe even depressed.
Once, I was at a yoga class with a slightly eccentric teacher (looking at you Full Throttle Yoga), and someone asked the question “What’s the big deal with handstands these days?”. The response was so honest. The instructor replied “There isn’t anything special about them. If you’re an a$$hole, you’ll still just be an a$$hole in a handstand. The reason we are doing them is to challenge you to do something new. After you accomplish a handstand, you may go out in your life and accomplish something else.” Just the act of going upside down can lead a person to gain confidence in themselves and their abilities.
The idea is simple, practice what you suck at more and spend less time practicing what you are good at. Our fear of failure lurks in every part of our lives, including our workouts. It is important to start identifying your fears, asking yourself why you don’t like to do this or that and start to slowly put yourself in uncomfortable (but safe) situations.
Reaching outside of your comfort zone and moving in different ways not only expands your physical skill set, you can literally strengthen your brain. Neuroplasticity is the ability of the brain to change throughout your life. Exercise has been shown to increase the grey matter in your brain (actual neurons) and it triggers a reaction that stimulates neuroplasticity. When you try something new, something you are not quite sure how to do, your brain looks at is as a riddle. Your brain immediately starts to try to solve the problem, working out the different routes to success. So the long and the short of it is that you get the brain benefits of not just exercise, but also of problem solving. So stop thinking about pumping up your biceps, and starting thinking about pumping up your brain.
I know, I bet you are starting to cringe at the very thought of being embarrassed or bad at something, but hear me out. Moving out of your comfort zone and challenging your mind and body is not only stimulating and fun, it is a sign of maturity and can allow you to grow way beyond your own expectations. I am by no means saying you must go out and do a handstand. It can be something as small as saying “yes” when you would normally say “no”. So, pick something attainable, just on the other side of your comfort wall, and bit-by-bit, impression-after-impression, make yourself stronger in every meaning of the word.